In fact, many women are much more content in the more traditional role. At the same time, many women would like to experience the consideration, courtesy, respect and authority which leadership in a relationship creates.
The first steps towards leadership often involve the bedroom. A woman’s insistence on her own pleasure and then on her own pleasure first is the beginning of leadership. A woman’s recognition that her sexual cycle is profoundly different from her husband’s “always on” situation is another step towards leadership. A woman who insists on making love only when she wants to will tend to have a man either mad with frustration or delighted in anticipation.
At the same time, this wonderful cycle, also allows a woman to take control of her overall situation. Long before a man is punished for his transgressions he should be rewarded for his virtues. But a woman exercising her leadership will not do anything which she does not find enjoyable. Most women enjoy caresses and kissing, few are particularly keen on full facial blow jobs. For a woman to lead she needs to ensure that she has a repertoire of sexual pleasures and that it is her decision as to which, if any, her husband will be allowed access.
Of course men are sexual creatures and a woman has to carefully consider how best to channel this energy: chastity or, alternatively, a constant requirement for the following male to masturbate to her commands. In either case the gradual creation of the reality that a man’s sexuality is sub-ordinate to her own will ensure that a wife, rather quickly, establishes female leadership in her home.