Grey Angora Sweater
If I had slightly longer hair and better skin that could be me in the picture. The Lady of the House decided that, before there was any chance I would be allowed to ejaculate, I was to spend the day en femme
. Panti girdle
, a very pretty long line bra
with breast form inserts to push it to its full “C” cup size
, a wonderfully soft, grey, angora sweater and a pair of high waisted wool ladies trousers with a back zipper. Plus little heels. Hannah simply left the outfit out for me after my shower.
Once in a while I quite like having to wear women’s clothing. But I suspect this is just the beginning of a Halloween set of treats and tricks. But I am also pretty sure my darling wife will let me come sometime today.
At least I very much hope so.
Update: Silly me, I showed the Lady of the House this post…”You know you’re right, you could look a lot like that pretty girl. Just wait a moment.” She hurried off and, when she returned she had a lipstick, a bit of foundation and a short brunette wig I had forgotten she owned. Now I look almost identical to the pretty girl. Which is delightful but I am very glad I work from home.
I’ve decided to keep j chaste until Halloween. He’s not happy about it as it will mean he has not ejaculated for more than a month – longest run ever!
But it has certainly kept him on a nice edge. I have been having great fun with my night wear. I love sheer, transparent, comfortable nighties. Just wisps of fabric. dominant wife
Seeing the Lady of the House in beautiful nightwear, nighties, little sheer night dresses, the occasional baby doll is wonderful and a huge priviledge; but it is getting nearly impossible to be as obedient as I am required to be.
There are moments when I just want to dive on her. Which she knows and I am pretty sure, enjoys.
lady of the house
Hannah writes about her evening at her dominant wife blog
. Relaxing for her, a bit less so for me. I passed my one month chastity mark. Hannah is showing no signs at all of being in the least bit concerned. In fact, last night she teased me a little as I was getting ready for bed.
She has nipple trained me which means that it is nearly impossible for me to ejaculate without her pinching my nipples; but it is almost impossible not to when she pinches, especially if she uses her lovely long nails. Which she did last night but without any verbal permission I just had to lie back in my nightie and pantie girdle and let her enjoy my acute discomfort. She pinched my erect nipple through the thin cotton of my white nightie. She would put on a lot of pressure for a few seconds with the tips of her fingernails and then ease off a little only to repeat the pain a few seconds latter. My cockette, I am embarrassed to say, leaked precum in my pantigirdle and I had to go to sleep in the wetness of my mess.
I so hope she lets me ejaculate sometime before Halloween.
Just a little while longer…
The Lady of the House has put out my panti girdle. We are closing in on a full month of no ejaculation and, frankly, I am so filled with longing I might just not be able to resist. But she’s thought of that.
“So Darling, this week you’ll be wearing your nice firm control panties during the day. And then, after you shower for bed you’ll have to have your pantigirdle on under your nightie. Don’t worry, it is only for a few nights.” and then she smiled, “Or maybe we should wait until you are all dressed up for Halloween. It would only be another few days.”
“Yes dear, whatever you decide.”
Hannah likes to really have fun with me on Halloween. Too much fun.
“Well, I’ll think about it today when you are working and I’ll give you my decision tonight over cocktails. We might want to ice that little cockette again tonight. We’ll see.” And with that she kissed me and I was off to work.
Can We Talk
The Lady of the House instructed me to set up her own blog called, A Dominant Wife
. Hannah has told me that she wants to use it to provide tips for other wives who have decided to take charge of their marriages. I am looking forward to reading it – though I suspect I will be a bit more involved than that.
“How lovely and hard you are darling.” The lady of the house often gives my cock a playful sqeeze when I am taking her coat.
“Well, I suppose that is to be expected. But I have been curious if you could go a full month without ejaculating. You’ve been very good…very. Sowhy don’t you put this Chablis on ice and put that little cock and those full balls in the bucket with my wine. Three minutes should be more than enough time. Set the kitchen timer.”
Since I posted my email address firstname.lastname@example.org I have received some lovely notes from people who like this site or wish to get more information about female led relationships. I love getting mail so keep writing.
Two places you might want to look at on this blog for more information about female led relationships are:
I’d like my Wife to Lead
I’d like my Husband to Follow
Enjoy them both and remember that most marriages are implicitly lead by the wife. Sending your husband to the corner or caning him simply affirms what is already going on.
fixing my lipstick
Now that Fall is here we will have more time to update this blog…Of course the Lady of the House has continued to keep me chaste, send me to my corner and cane when necessary over the Summer; but now she is telling me she wants to explore some other interesting areas of a female led marriage…
You’ll notice we have changed the format a bit to freshen up the site. I would not be surprised if we tried out a few more themes before we are done.
At the same time Hannah has decided to step out into social media. I have just set up a Facebook page for her as well as a Google+ Page and a Twitter account. I know she would be very pleased if you “friended, followed, plused” where appropriate and I will be putting up the traditional links to do this.
Hannah told me that when it comes to social media the picture below reflects her sense of a whole other world….
A new female led world…pretty dresses
Summer is a lovely time to practice enjoying one’s position. Serving my wife, staying out of trouble.
Pure pleasure to sit in the sun and serve the Lady of the House a cocktail or a glass of wine. And I love this illustration. Very much what we are doing this summer.