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Escorts’ questions answered

Happy New Year!

A few months ago The Lady of the House took questions from escorts and ladies who thought they might be interested in escorting. Questions for Miss Jay is a light hearted exploration of the oldest profession.

Hannah’s interest in escorts, courtesans and mistresses reflects her view that these women provide a vital, sexy and stylish service to attached and unattached men. They are the girls men invest with their fantasy lives, their insecurities and their secrets.  As Hannah put it to me when we were working on Questions for Miss Jay:

“I think every young girl should spend a year or two being kept as a mistress. Whether she decides to work on the retail side of the sex trade or not, simply having the experience of a man paying for your favours is a great, feminine, experience. When I answer questions about threesomes or how to wear stockings or deal with a foot fetish, I start with a sex work positive attitude. This is a book more about style, elegance and flirtation that it is about prostitution; an elegant woman accepts the fact that, from time to time, men will wish to give her money and then encourages this behavior.”

This is a book for escorts and girls thinking of escorting or becoming mistresses; but it is also a book for ladies who simply want a different, knowing, take on fashion, style, men, sexuality and elegance in a modern world.

For a limited time Questions for Miss Jay  is free at Amazon.

Post Christmas training

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Girdles: a lady’s firm foundation

“You are a naughty man aren’t you.” said Hannah as I undressed for bed. “Between the ham, the turkey and the good red wine I fear you have undone all the good work you did before Christmas.”

“Well I might have gained a couple of pounds, dear.” I said as I slipped my nighty on as quickly as I could.

“Try eight, maybe ten. Well, it is a good idea for you to pick up your exercise in any account and I wanted Mady to put her personal training experience to use. But, even better, I was just looking on Amazon for a few items and I discovered they have the Rago girdles I like you in on sale. Long line panty girdles with a zipper are such an incentive for an obedient husband. And for sixteen dollars off I can get you two new ones. Plus, I want to get myself two open bottom girdles. I was noticing in Church that there are a fair number of women in this little place who could use some firm foundations and in my position I may be able to lead.”

“Does the question of foundations come up often when you go for coffee after Church.” I asked gtting into bed.

“Don’t be cheeky my darling. I am often complimented on my figure, and on Mady’s, and there is certainly no reason not to tell the good ladies and, more importantly, their lumpy daughters, that a bit of exercise and good foundations will make their dresses fit properly.

“Yes dear.” I said turning out the overhead lights.

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Update: Hannah just reminded me that we did a book on girdles, well really about wonderful old girdle advertising from the 1940’s and 1950’s. If you ever wondered why ladies wore girdles this book makes the beauty of restraint all too apparent.

Here’s the Amazon link to our girdle book.

On Being Caged: the New Normal

I have been in my cock cage since the first of March. Reading the blogs of other chaste husbands I have been struck by how they long to be free of their chastity. Much whimpering and begging and tales of painful, broken, erections.

I have my fair share of discomfort as my morning wood fills my cage or Hannah gives me a little tease before bed;but that is all part of the sense of having my cock taken away from me.

When I first started wearing my cage it felt strange. My cock was isolated, beyond my control, beyond even my touch. It felt very odd, wrong even. But as my time in my cage went from being occasional to constant I have begun to forget how it felt for my cock to be free. The soft cage is like wearing five or six thick condoms. While it pinches my balls occasionally, I hardly notice the cage most of the time. Only when, involuntarily, I get hard does the cage bite. Most of the time the lack of sensation where my cock used to twitch barely registers.

Wearing a girdle most of the day simply adds to my sensation of incompleteness. I used to have a cock and balls and the masculine sensations which went with them. Now I have nothing except the constant reminder that Hannah holds the keys to the lock and is not inclined to use them.

Before I was caged I had not idea how powerful absence could be; now I know my sexuality, or at least the capacity to do anything about it has been erased by a carefully molded piece of eight inch thick silicone. Our marriage now truly has only one sexuality – Hannah’s.

Which is how my darling wants it and how it should be. I suspect many marriages would be much deeper and more satisfying if wives caged up their husbands and husbands accepted the complete submission a cock cage creates

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A year in a female led marriage

Shopping Madness! Before you buy enjoy our first book A Man In My Position Free!
And then, when you have downloaded that book carry on shopping at Amazon. The Lady of the House wants to pick up a few items:

She has a few pretty things picked out for herself as well. So, like everyone else on the internet we ask you to consider doing your shopping at Amazon through one of our links…maybe this one to get your free copy of A Man in My Position

Happy Place

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Where I belong

“Darling”, said Hannah quietly as she put down her tablet, “I must say that reading even my own prose has left me more than a little moist. You can take your position.”

The Lady of the House lifted her nighty and I went straight to work, licking, sucking and caressing as she, gently at first and then with a food deal of force, pushed her sweet pussy to my tongue. It was not long before she began to sigh and then, pressing my face to her cunt, came beautifully.

“Now lick me nicely dry dear…no, we certainly won’t be needing that. Where can that cage be?”


“Darling,  thank you so much for posting the Amazon items.  I know it’s a lot of work but it’s fun to see what people buy and,  well if we are ever going to get a cage for your little cock we’re going to have to work hard. However…” She said slipping her hands under her skirt and slipping  off her panties. “I think you need a little corner time to focus before cocktails.  When you hear the timer go off put on one of your girdles and one of your pretty camis and bring down your nipple clips. Having your nipples clipped for cocktails always makes you  nice and hard. And don’t forget your tablet. You might as well have a bit of fun with your little cock while you still can.”

I Immediately did what I was told and, standing in my corner, engulfed in Hannah’s sweet scent, I realised she had pretty much decided to cage me.